Deal With Others As You Would Have Them Deal With You. A wise person said that the one who seeks out the faults of others is like a fly - it lands only on that which is foul. Some people are afflicted with the word "but." Every time you mention someone to them, they will say something along the lines of, "He has some good in him, but..." What follows "but" is always criticism, … [Read more...] about Deal With Others As You Would Have Them Deal With